posted by
purplerabbits at 01:44pm on 12/12/2018
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I received a card from my aunt. It has six words hand written on it (plus a squiggle that probably means 'and'), but it still says a lot, in a way...
- The card is from Waitrose, which is information even though it is no surprise given her position of rather further up the middle class than my parents
- Waitrose donates 10% of the selling price of these cards to be shared equally between four charities which are carefully selected to appeal to as many Waitrose shoppers as possible while offending no-one. They are a "British-based nature conservation charity", a mental health charity for children in schools, the Alzheimers Society, and a charity with 'Royal' in the name who support 'local volunteers' to go into hospitals and such. All charities listed operate in England and Wales but not Scotland.
- The paper in the card is 'responsibly sourced'. Jolly Good.
- It is a Christmas car - I can tell because it says 'Joy to you at Christmas and throughout the year' in it. This would never pass in Scotland surely - it doesn't even say Happy New Year.
- It is addressed to my old name. I know I did tell her what I prefer to be called, but either she forgot or she doesn't care.
- It is in her handwriting, so even though her husband's name is on it this needn't mean anything. This is normal.
- The message would be equally suitable to any level of acquaintance.
- It does not contain her address, phone number or email address, so I still have no means of contacting her.
- Given the lack of any other personalising features, she likely doesn't much want me to.
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But much empathy/sympathy for uncommunicative communication from relatives
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I have to admit I've never really understood churned-out Christmas cards which sometimes don't even say Dear ... and just have "love x and y" at the bottom. I still get ones as you describe from my SIL and usually from my aunt in NZ.