Why must we stay where we don't belong

[purplerabbits]

I have been feeling intermittently crappy and am wondering whether I can or should do the Lughnassadh stuff. How do I get out of this one gracefullly?

P.S. People who don't know the answer to the question are still welcome to offer standard forms of reassurance....

Comments

[baratron.livejournal.com]

I don't know the answer to the question, but I agree with the other commenters who say it's better to tell them now than later.

I'm missing enough of the context that I don't know what kind of timescale we're talking about or how well you know the other people involved. Would they understand "I've been feeling intermittently crappy and think it might be better if I don't do this - I'd rather let you down now than at the last minute"? Some people "get" stress and mental health problems, and others don't.